Five ways to know if your man is genuine
Love is wonderful. You crave it if you lack it. But we must guard our emotions. They can be deceiving. especially when intimacy is involved. It’s easy to overdo it.
We’ve all made the mistake of believing our feelings are genuine when they’re actually lust for our bodies. He loves you in more ways than one.
It can cause self-doubt, preventing you from finding and falling in love. You will be happier if you know someone cares about you.
1. It’s not just about the bedroom.
Self-confidence is the key. You’ve learned from the past, and now you can tell the difference between love and lust.
That’s a great place to be. It’s fine if you’re not there. Give it time, you’ll get there. You will soon be able to read your partner’s signals and trust yourself.
You can tell if someone you’re seeing is fond of you without initiating anything intimate. Touching or holding hands, also known as “loving touch,” can create an emotional bond.
Whether done privately or publicly, it is gentle and warm. A loved touch respects boundaries and is mutually comfortable.
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2. You have deep and rich conversations.
Does he show interest in you by asking personal questions? Do you want to know more? Does he tell you about his life without prompting? That doesn’t mean he dominates.
Is he familiar with your tastes? Does he recall your exchanges? He won’t always ask the same questions. Do you feel he is curious about you? If it’s lust, he won’t spend much time talking. And he usually just asks for physical contact.
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3. He discusses your future.
Is he going to a concert with you next month? Is “we” replacing “I”? If yes, this is a sign of true love, not lust.
When you are committed to someone, you can talk about the next month, holidays, or year. This doesn’t mean the relationship will last for the next 5–10 years. But I’d stay to find out.
4. He introduces you to his circle.
If the person you’re seeing introduces you to his closest friends, it’s not a casual fling. You don’t have to wait for him. It’s fine to take the bull by the horns.
In either case, he will know you are serious. If not, he’ll probably flee. If he is, he will want to meet them and possibly introduce you to his family.
Do this at a low-key event like a small party. This way, the focus isn’t on you (and it’s not overwhelming).
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5. You have a good friend.
A good relationship starts with a good friendship. And it will help with intimacy. A good friendship makes you want to be with your partner. A good friend will help you get through tough times. It shows he wants to grow old with you.
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After an argument, you can mend things by simply saying, “I’m sorry.” You have a better grasp of his story, and he is comfortable sharing it with you.
No one knows why some relationships work and others don’t. I’m sure you knew a few who you knew would make it. They didn’t.
We wish you joy and love. It is possible in our fast-paced society. Try again if you haven’t found it. It is waiting for you.