TIWA SAVAGE, TAPE; HOW TO HANDLE LEAKED NUDE IMAGES/VIDEOS

Tiwatope Savage showbizzly known by her artistically coined stage name, Tiwa Savage is a Nigerian Lagos born singer, songwriter and actress. Former wife to Tumji Balogun, the 40yrs old divorcee since 2018 is the mother of one; Jamil Balogun. She made a debut in the entertainment industry as early as 15, after living in London for 4yrs in pursuit of secondary education.

The former signee of Marvin Record after a 7 years contract which saw the release of bombers like Eminado, Ma lo, all over, lova lova, joined Universal Music Group with her music wending over countries. As first ever Nigerian Female to be Nominated and celebrated for BET ( Black entertainment Television), First Female Winner at MTV Europe Music Award in the category Best African Act. She is an excellent solo melodist who blends Yoruba, pidgin and English to produce sounds brimming with glee.

Talking about worth, she stands amongst the top-five-wealthiest Nigerian entertainers with Wizkid, Davido, Don jazzy, Rude boy with a net worth of over Naira 5Billion, living lavishinglg in luxurious mansions and brand cars including Benz, Rolls Royce, Bentley. Asides performance on stages, she makes lots of money from brand ambassadorial deals.

Like her name Savage, she’s crazy, sassy, wild and seems not to give a damn due to the number of controversies she’s been involved with. From Seyi shay, rumors of infidelity, and a culture of sharing half naked pictures and appearing butt naked in music videos in order to trill her fans, the sharing of a 10sec pelvic moment(intimate video)with her supposed boyfriend is a no-brainer. Setting the media agog however, the tape was received with mixed feelings and tongues set wagging as to why a Celebrity would do Nudes. However, how she managed to control the narrative and doesn’t seem broken is of great importance. How did she manage the release and is so ahead of the outrage in no time? Interesting right?

WHAT TO DO IF YOUR NUDES REACH THE SOCIAL MEDIA?

Sending nudes is a very common characteristic of modern dating especially in distant relationships. What ever your reason for sending nudes was, it’s out there already! All you can do now is to take care of yourself and see the bandwagon die in a week or two.

Dealing with Nude leakage? Here’s what you should do!!!

Stay calm

Do you feel an Increased heart rate, faster breathing or shortness of breath, feeling like there’s Butterflies or digestive changes, intense sweating and trembling muscles? Yes, it’s all normal!! No matter how damaged and betrayed you feel, it’s a terrible thing and you ought not to shiver while figuring a way out.

Take care of yourself

Usually, your first thought will be to blame yourself for sending nudes in the first place- it is your fault inherently, but not yours for hitting the media. They betrayed you for sharing but you need to look after yourself while looking for a better way to deal with it.

Talk to someone

The person might be a counselor, parent, teacher or elder. Make sure he’s someone you trust and is comfortable confiding in. Admit it’s stupid and embarrassing, talk about your every feeling; it ranges from hurt, bitterness, depression and even suicide. Talking to someone will help minimize the feeling of rejection and subsequent self harm.

Take legal action

Tell the police. In the context of domestic and family violence, sharing or threatening to share an intimate nude or sexual image of a partner or ex-partner without the consent of the person involved, is an offense.

If you know the perpetrator and want to revenge, do it the right way so as to minimize damage. File a lawsuit and the person will be charged with Image-based abuse. Note, it will be easier for you to bounce back if you do things the right way.

The feeling of knowing someone has or is watching your nude is mentally disastrous. The consequences makes it very important to warn about partaking in practices like taking nude in order to avoid havoc. Should you take nudes, put effort in securing them and not sharing with any one. It is advisable not to have nudes. So DELETE them.